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I believe that we cannot heal without owning our circumstances. It?s important that we not fall into feeling we have special problems no one else has. Telling our life stories over and over from the perspective of ?the wound? not only focuses our attention on the negative in our live, but is a crutch that too-often rationalizes inaction and keeps us stuck. It does not serve us to think that we can?t change our lives because our problems are special or insolvable. Many of us do have severe handicaps ? be they mental, physical, or emotional. We all have challenges to face, and that fact gives us the unique opportunity to become who we were meant to be. For example, as a youth Cheap Germain Ifedi Jersey , the greatest psychologist Dr. Milton Erickson was paralyzed by polio. He spent years in an iron lung. During that time the only thing he could do was move his eyeballs. He spent countless hours observing people who came into his room. Years later this observational ability allowed him to become an innovative master of human nature and motivation, leading him to develop a unique and effective method of therapy.
I believe that it is through these specific (and maybe even necessary) challenges that our life purposes and our characters are developed. We all have justifications for feeling ?Why me?? What then do we do?
Your life is inevitably changing in a particular direction. Why? Because at some level you already know what you want and where you want to go. That inner directive alone will attract insights and ideas of what to do, as well as opportunities and the right people to achieve the goal. Your inner state of being is always working to fulfill your destiny, and you have the best chance to receive new ideas and a broader perspective when you are relaxed, open, and empowered by the belief that your life can and will change for the better.
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It's the same in most workshop situations. Facilitators are the leaders of a workshop. They are the experts; but are they really? As the expert in imparting a particular topic, they will present material and lead the group in education around a theme. Given the diversity, creativity, and intelligence of the group Cheap Earl Thomas III Jersey , the Facilitator will encounter excellent questions that they are unable to answer. A Facilitator doesn't seek to answer all the questions though. They turn the question back to the group and ellicit discussion and ideas from the participants.
Powerful synergy is created. Belonging is experienced. Inclusiveness creates greater participation and ownership of outcomes. Whether you're a leader or a team-member, you can contribute through the empowerment you give and create for one another. Give it a try.
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